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31 Susan Walsh June 4, 2011 at 1:25 pm

Prove she never attended even one frat party

Eh, this is harsh. That’s nearly all American women in college. No wonder you believe American women are unmarriageable.

32 Susan Walsh June 4, 2011 at 1:27 pm

Also, the article explicitly says that promiscuous and non-promiscuous women are equally good at assessing their desirability.

No, it says that warm, friendly women are better at assessing their desirability than promiscuous and aloof women.

33 Susan Walsh June 4, 2011 at 1:31 pm

The primary reason that you contend (many? most?) men don’t like sluts is because they have poor impulse control.

I didn’t mention impulse control. I simply stated that promiscuity is correlated with low agreeableness, high neuroticism, high risk-seeking and high novelty-seeking. This is also true of addicts of all kinds. But as OffTheCuff? points out, not all people are addicted to all substances, obviously. PIck your poison. You may be addicted to the dopamine high of kinky sex, but don’t find that eating a burger is risky, a novelty or likely to flood your brain with dopamine for any other reason.

34 Susan Walsh June 4, 2011 at 2:03 pm

@Rae Fair enough. This study was published in a journal in May, I believe, so I’ll keep an eye out for any further data. My being drawn to the study is undoubtedly due to my having arrived at similar conclusions via independent observation. Not statistically significant, just my impressions about the way women and men perceive their own sexual market value.

35 Michael of Charlotte June 4, 2011 at 2:05 pm

The traits of warmth, trust and cooperativeness are associated with femininity, which may explain why men ask out more women who exhibit this demeanor.

Completely agree with this. When I’m thinking of a girl long-term, this is where it begins.

36 MRKTGNS June 4, 2011 at 2:37 pm

“Men decide who is worthy”

Abbot is correct, just as men need not reward woman for their slutty behavior and men not seek approval from woman, but reinforce what is desirable and disqualify those who do not meet the requirements. This is empowering for the male on two fronts. He will leave the interaction with dignity and strength, he will not feel rejected because she did not meet his expectations.